THE KIDS CODE™ PROCESS
The Kids Code™ process is a form of communication, which
allows a code of sorts to begin between parents and children, a message without
words.
The code, which starts off very basic, is a combination of
non-verbal communication and listening.
It is a type of tuning – in process, which develops trust before helping
to establish rapport, so as independent thinking can arise.
It is a very simple, but powerful process to use when you
struggle with your behaviour or your baby/child’s behaviour.
The first step taught to parents is how to calm your relationship
with your baby/child; this is taught as a physical process of hands on activity,
which is based on centering.
The centering directs the parent to stay still, present in
the moment, allowing a space thus creating a pocket of stillness, where anything is
possible. More importantly an opportunity for your child to join up with
you naturally.
Once this is achieved the child has an active chance to
access their innate intelligence, (what they were born with, not taught by you)
where they begin to feel safe and secure in themselves and develop awareness
that there is no pressure and they have a choice.
Change occurs in the space created by the process.
The process actively guides parents back to the basics of
relating, to themselves first and then their children.
The Kids Code™ process was developed over many years of
working with children as an Occupational Therapist in my private practice. I
was able to copyright Kids Code in 1996 and a Patent Applied for in 1999.
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