CALMER FAMILY STORIES

Calmer Behaviour With Families


I've had this need to write a testimonial for Jenny Roberts for a long time now. I'll try to keep it as short as possible for I could fill pages on Jenny’s stuff and how it has affected our lives, mine and my precious children.
 
I am a 46y/o solo ‘twice over’ Mum with a 10y/o son and a 25y/o daughter. In 2002 I met Jenny and did her program, quite by chance, unlike most who have asked for her help. I was doing Discreet Trial Training sessions with two Autistic boys, at the time and both their parents had done the Kids Code program so I felt it would be beneficial.
I DID NOT NEED HELP!
 
Well…that’s what I thought. After hearing only some of what she was conveying I asked Jenny how to help the ones that have already grown up and left home. Well...there was no direct answer for that but I most certainly did have the insight on that one during the whole process. Following the Kids Code program, Jenny ran a Play Group at her farm and I would attend these along with the parents and the boys I worked with. During this period I learned invaluable things that changed my whole belief system, right down to my spirituality.  Now I know I have true faith in the Universe and how it works. That is what it felt like, an ENLIGHTENMENT of sorts. I wanted the whole world to get it and do the Kids Code process. I was enlightened as to how calm life can be and learned how to truly relate for the first time too. As for my own children, I learned what a true sense of pride is. I saw who they really were for the first time ever, not who I wanted them to be or what I tried to create for them. Most importantly, I also realized…
I DID WANT HELP!
 
Today 5 years later, I still live by Kids Code and baby-sit for parents that are going through the process. The relationship I now have with my children is better than I'd ever wished for. I have also fostered a 3y/o girl for 8 months and did amazing things with the behavioural problems she had. All her attachments including bottles, dummies and blankets were gone within 2 weeks, sleeping all night within 6 weeks and then toilet trained as well. It is a very rewarding thing to see and more importantly, 'feel' when a child switches on. For me it creates an energy that makes me glow with pride. Knowing where ‘you're at’ and having the knowledge of how to ground and centre in order to get to where you need to be is indeed very empowering. If we get it and we use it, the natural progression is that our children get it too.
WE ALL DESERVE THAT!
 
If anyone is lucky enough to find Jenny…they can find freedom from the ‘norm’ and liberation as a parent. Maybe they'll even find their own true self… just like I did.
 
Thank you Jenny!!!
 
Val Kenyon
BUSSELTON W.A.
12th March 2007

 

 

               
         

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